Leadership Skills: 5 Ways to Develop Them in Your Children

Published on: February 10, 2020

Today’s children are tomorrow’s leaders.

This may be hard to accept, especially if you don’t think your child is anywhere near ready to lead anything — or anyone. However, the truth is, every child has it in them to be a leader in some way, you just have to foster their growth, independence and resilience.

Here are five ways you can help to develop leadership skills in your children:

Be the change you want them to see

You can’t expect your child to become a leader if you’re not walking the walk. It’s important to be a good role model and show your child that you are just as accountable for your actions as they are. This can be a tough pill to swallow, but it means you need to admit when you make mistakes. Apologize when necessary. This also means being consistent with how you balance work and personal life and why it’s important to do so.

Volunteer together

Pick a cause together that’s close to your heart and show your child that they can make a difference. They will see first-hand the needs in their community and together you can talk about the impact volunteering and contributing can have on those around you.

Encourage them to blaze their own trails 

While your child may have your nose, personality or your jawline, they aren’t you. They may have different goals and interests separate from yours and you should encourage them to follow through on what they like to do. Perhaps they want to try something new? Join a new club? Take lessons? Get them to create a vision board of what their personal goals are. It’s a fun activity that you can do together that will get both of you excited about their future.

Enrol them in summer camp

Summer camp is more than a fun experience. It can offer an opportunity to not only participate in team-building experiences but take charge of them. Participation in group activities teaches kids about teamwork and helps them learn to cooperate with others, support teammates, aim toward a common goal, control their emotions, communicate effectively and do their share of work when others are relying on them. Muskoka Woods offers a variety of activities sure to foster leadership skills and self-confidence. Muskoka Woods even offers a four-week program dedicated to leadership development!

Let them work

Whether they want to start a lemonade stand or offer babysitting services to the neighbourhood, let them do it on their own. They will need to market their services, which can include making posters for their stand, printing out letters and dropping them off in mailboxes, or introducing themselves and their babysitting qualifications. Also, let them figure out how much money they need to start their stand for items like the product itself, cups, ice, table, etc., and how much money they will need to charge for their lemonade to make the venture profitable. These early-years jobs can really give your kids a leg up on achieving leadership skills.

About the Author

Rachel Naud lives in Toronto with her husband, 16-year-old son and Old English Sheepdog, Stanley. When she's not busy with the three boys in her life, she is also the founder and editor of INBETWEEN magazine, a digital magazine geared to parents of teens. Rachel can often be seen on morning shows across the country, talking about trends and products relevant to that demographic. She has appeared on The Morning Show, Breakfast TV, CTV Winnipeg, CTV Ottawa and more. In addition, Rachel is also the coordinator of the Lifestyle Media program at Centennial College in Toronto, where she also teaches students a variety of subjects in Lifestyle Media. To unwind, Rachel loves to cook while mostly blasting The Chicks.

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